Stephanie agrees, explaining that she has tried to quit on her own and has even purposely arranged to run out of pills during the weekend, knowing she couldn't get more until the following week. But she'd always wind up giving in to her addiction. "I got so sick ... and I started to sweat. And I started to get horrible pains in my head and in my stomach, and I just got so ill that I had to go to the doctor. And because I do have some legitimate medical things, they wrote me a [prescription.]"
Pointing out that Stephanie takes four pills before she even gets out of bed, Dr. Phil says, "As you sit here right now, you've taken 10 of those pills ... So, we're not talking to you, we're talking to the drug."
"I suppose, yes. Absolutely," she says.
"Tell me why you're here today. Why here? Why now?" Dr. Phil asks.
"I don't want to do it for my kids. I don't want to do it for my health. I know that I'm killing myself literally every single day," says Stephanie.
"There was a period in my life where really I couldn't have cared whether I lived or died," says Stephanie. "I was going through the end of a bad marriage. And you know, I was just I guess self-medicating just to make that part go away."
"The same as someone in an alley who's taking pills that they steal from a store. You're just smart enough to do it over the Internet. But there's no difference in the effect that it has on you and there's no difference in the fact that you are robbing your kids of their mother and you don't have the right to do that," says Dr. Phil.
"And by the way, how much money do you make a year, just roughly?" he asks.
"About $22,000," she says.
Dr. Phil turns to his previous guest, Susan, who works as prostitute and worries that she won't be able to take care of her kids by having a normal job. "About $22,000 a year, and she's raising four children. It can be done," he tells her.
"Take it," Stephanie interjects.
"But I will not negotiate," says Dr. Phil. "I have some representatives here from Florida Detox and they're going to accompany you to the airport, and you ain't going home. You're going to Florida. You're going to Florida Detox where there is an amazing program that can detoxify you from this drug in your body in about three hours."
Stephanie cries. "Thank you," she says.
Dr. Phil expands on what she can expect from the Florida Detox staff. "They're going to do some psychological testing for you to make sure that you're where you need to be. Then you're going to go under a general anesthesia, and your body is going to get treated to detoxify you cellularly so you don't go into all the reactions that you've been having. And then they're going to monitor you for a day to make sure that your body is doing what it's supposed to do to get these drugs out of your system."
Dr. Phil reminds her that there is no easy fix. "This is a lifestyle. I am going to search your house. We are going to kill all of your Internet accounts. We're going to make people know who you are so you cannot get these drugs, alright? Because it just absolutely cannot happen." As for her kids, he informs her that Choice Care Nannies will provide a fully-screened nanny to assist her father in taking care of her children while she's gone.
"I know you," she says as he joins her on stage with some final words of support.
"Stephanie, first, I want you to realize that secrecy and darkness is the basis for being trapped," says Dr. Ireland. "And when you let the cat out of the bag of your addiction, it now frees you to get healing and walk through a process to wholeness. And our church family, we're 5,000 people behind you. We're going to help you." He offers to help Stephanie with childcare, personal counseling and with her faith. "I just want you to know we're there for you."
"Thank you," she says. "Thank you so much."