"I've had my cats for 12 years," says Rob. "She didn't give me any indication that she didn't like my cats."
"I've done everything I can to adjust to her hatred of my cats," says Rob, who turned one of their suites into a cat palace. He even sealed the suite off from the rest of the house, so that the dander wouldn't travel.
"Am I being too selfish in asking him to get rid of the cats?" asks Sandi.
Robin defends herself, saying, "It wasn't so much the cats, it was you with the cats." She demonstrates how Dr. Phil would snuggle with the cat while she stood there saying, "Hello? I'm here."
Sandi can relate, because Rob often snuggles with his cats too.
Dr. Phil tells Sandi and Rob that it's not
He turns to Sandi, "If you are resenting that he pampers the cats and not you, that's an emotional issue. That's not a cat issue. You've got to deconstruct this and find out what the real issue is," he says.