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          Relationship Health Profile Test

           
          Circle either True or False for each item.
           
          1. I am satisfied with my sex life.
          True
          False

          2. My partner doesn’t really listen to me.
          True
          False

          3. I trust my partner.
          True
          False

          4. I feel picked on and put down.
          True
          False

          5. I feel hopeful about our future.
          True
          False

          6. It is not easy to share my feelings.
          True
          False

          7. My partner often says, “I love you.”
          True
          False

          8. Sometimes I feel rage.
          True
          False

          9. I feel appreciated.
          True
          False

          10. I am out of control.
          True
          False

          11. My partner is there for me in hard times.
          True
          False

          12. My partner is harsh in his or her criticism.
          True
          False

          13. My partner understands me.
          True
          False

          14. I fear my partner is bored.
          True
          False

          15. My partner doesn’t like to share what’s on his or her mind.
          True
          False

          16. I imagine myself divorced.
          True
          False

          17. My relationship is what I always dreamed of.
          True
          False

          18. I know I am right.
          True
          False

          19. My partner treats me with dignity and respect.
          True
          False

          20. My partner is a taker.
          True
          False

          21. We often do fun things together.
          True
          False

          22. Sometimes I just want to hurt my partner.
          True
          False

          23. I feel loved.
          True
          False

          24. I would rather lie than deal with a problem.
          True
          False

          25. We still have a lot of passion in our relationship.
          True
          False

          26. I am trapped with no escape.
          True
          False

          27. My partner thinks I am fun to be with.
          True
          False

          28. Our relationship has gotten boring.
          True
          False

          29. We enjoy going out on dates alone.
          True
          False

          30. My partner is ashamed of me.
          True
          False

          31. We trust each other a great deal.
          True
          False

          32. We have become nothing more than roommates.
          True
          False

          33. I know my partner will never leave me.
          True
          False

          34. I am no longer proud of my body.
          True
          False

          35. My partner respects me.
          True
          False

          36. My partner constantly compares me to others.
          True
          False

          37. My partner still finds me desirable.
          True
          False

          38. We just seem to want different things.
          True
          False

          39. I am allowed to think for myself.
          True
          False

          40. I feel crowded by my partner.
          True
          False

          41. I am honest with my partner.
          True
          False

          42. People have no idea what our relationship is really like.
          True
          False

          43. My partner is open to suggestions.
          True
          False

          44. My partner has shut me out.
          True
          False

          45. My partner is my primary source of emotional support.
          True
          False

          46. I feel judged and rejected by my partner.
          True
          False

          47. My partner cares if I am upset or sad.
          True
          False

          48. My partner treats me like a child.
          True
          False

          49. My partner puts our relationship ahead of all others.
          True
          False

          50. I never satisfy my partner.
          True
          False

          51. My partner wants to hear my stories.
          True
          False

          52. I chose my partner for the wrong reasons.
          True
          False

          53. I look forward to our time together.
          True
          False

          54. My partner thinks I am boring in bed.
          True
          False

          55. My partner is lucky to have me.
          True
          False

          56. My partner treats me like an employee.
          True
          False

          57. I win my share of disputes.
          True
          False

          58. I envy my friends’ relationships.
          True
          False

          59. My partner would protect me if necessary.
          True
          False

          60. I am suspicious of my partner.
          True
          False

          61. I feel needed by my partner.
          True
          False

          62. My partner is jealous of me.
          True
          False

           

          Scoring
           
          Now go back over your test and count all of the even-numbered questions to which you answered True. Write down the total. Now go back and count all of the odd-numbered items to which you answered False. Add that number to your “True total” to get your overall score.
           
          Even numbered “True” responses _______
           
          Odd-numbered “False” responses _______
           
          Overall Total _______
           

          This test is designed to give you a quick snapshot of the health of your relationship.
           
          If your overall score is above 32, it is likely that your relationship is in extreme danger of failing.
           
          If your total score is between 20 and 32, then your relationship is seriously troubled and you may be living an “emotional divorce.”
           
          If your total score is between 12 and 19, then your relationship is probably about average (which is not great) and certainly needs work.
           
          If your score is below 11, then your relationship is well above the norm and may have isolated areas in which you can improve.

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