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10 Kids, 1 Affair: The Ultimate Divide?
Whitney, the oldest of 10 children, says her once-perfect family has been at war since her father, Scott, left her mother, Melinda, for a 19-year-old woman five years ago. The exes come face to face for the first time in five years on Dr. Phil’s stage. Can this feuding family come to a truce?
Shelby says when she was younger, she really looked up to her father. Now, she says she can’t even call him Dad. “He does not deserve the title of a dad,” she says.
“I’m frustrated, because I’m stuck in the middle,” Whitney says. “I’m the only one who talks to both sides.” She says she’s angry with her father. “All of us feel like we’ve been just thrown away, we don’t matter anymore.”
When asked by Dr. Phil what she’d like to see happen, Whitney responds, “The family being united again, people being civil to one another — not this constant battle where my siblings don’t talk. It’s just arguing 24/7.”
Chase, 23, says his mom’s “heart had to have been ripped in half” when she and Scott divorced. He says he wants to see his mom move forward with her life — and he has no desire to have a relationship with his father. “Scott is not my father,” he says.
Chase and Lindy do not have a relationship and have not seen each other since their parents' split.
“It is inappropriate to program minor children against an absent parent, and it will come back to bite you,” Dr. Phil tells Melinda and the older siblings. “Those children grow up, and when they grow up, they parse all this out and they recognize that a bitter parent either elicited, maintained or allowed them to be alienated from an absent parent.”
Ashley claims that Melinda has been harassing her from the beginning with mean emails, phone calls and text messages. “Melinda is doing everything she can to keep Scott from seeing his kids,” she says, adding that Scott has tried to fight for his children, to no avail. “I’d be happy if Scott had a relationship with his kids. They don’t need to like me, they don’t need to love me.
“I wouldn’t say that I hate Melinda, but I do deeply despise her,” she concludes.
Scott admits that he feels no connection to his six youngest children. "I miss them, but I still have to live my life," he says. "I can't live in the past."
Dr. Phil offers to provide therapists to help the family broker a peace.
A Family Divided
Twenty-seven-year-old Whitney, the oldest of 10 children, says she had the perfect family growing up — but everything changed five years ago, when her father, Scott, left her mother, Melinda, for his current wife, Ashley, who was 19 at the time. Since then, she says her family has been at war: Her parents have been fighting dirty, her siblings have chosen sides, and Scott hasn’t seen his six youngest children, ages 6 to 18, in at least four years. “My sister, Lindy, chose to live with my dad and Ashley. Everyone is mad at her,” she explains. “My brother, Kyle, is in the military, and he stays out of this [drama].” She says her 18-year-old sister, Shelby, is among the six youngest children who live with Melinda.
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Shelby says when she was younger, she really looked up to her father. Now, she says she can’t even call him Dad. “He does not deserve the title of a dad,” she says.
“I’m frustrated, because I’m stuck in the middle,” Whitney says. “I’m the only one who talks to both sides.” She says she’s angry with her father. “All of us feel like we’ve been just thrown away, we don’t matter anymore.”
When asked by Dr. Phil what she’d like to see happen, Whitney responds, “The family being united again, people being civil to one another — not this constant battle where my siblings don’t talk. It’s just arguing 24/7.”
Siblings at Odds
Lindy, 20, who lives with Scott and Ashley, supports her father and says he's happier than she’s ever seen him. She admits that she hasn’t seen her mom since November 2008. “My mom, when she’s mad at me, calls me a traitor to my siblings,” she claims.Chase, 23, says his mom’s “heart had to have been ripped in half” when she and Scott divorced. He says he wants to see his mom move forward with her life — and he has no desire to have a relationship with his father. “Scott is not my father,” he says.
Chase and Lindy do not have a relationship and have not seen each other since their parents' split.
Chase and Lindy face each other for the first time in nearly five years. Can they reach a common ground?
“Do you feel like, in terms of this family dynamic currently, that you contribute to or contaminate this situation?”
Ashley and Scott
Ashley and Scott deny Melinda's claim that they had an affair while Scott was married. “When Scott and I first met, we were just co-workers,” Ashley says. “We didn’t actually have a relationship until he had moved out of their house.” She says that Melinda pushed her and Scott together “with all of her nastiness and ugliness.”Ashley claims that Melinda has been harassing her from the beginning with mean emails, phone calls and text messages. “Melinda is doing everything she can to keep Scott from seeing his kids,” she says, adding that Scott has tried to fight for his children, to no avail. “I’d be happy if Scott had a relationship with his kids. They don’t need to like me, they don’t need to love me.
“I wouldn’t say that I hate Melinda, but I do deeply despise her,” she concludes.