Melissa says her 14-year-old daughter, Destoni, is aggressive, violent, and a bully.

At home, she has chased her sister and babysitter with a butcher knife. At school, Destoni yells accusations at teachers in the hallways, throws school supplies, and gets kicked out of class almost every day. But Destoni crossed a line when she threatened to shoot her teacher and other students, causing her to be suspended from two different schools. Melissa and her mother, Michelle, fear Destoni will end up killed or homeless due to her behavior. One thing is for sure, Destoni is just not functioning well in life.

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