Rachel says her adult stepson, Devan, has “failed to launch” and behaves more like he’s 15 than 28. Devan’s mother, Valrie, claims he’s prone to fits of rage and says she has to “walk on eggshells” around him. Devan’s father, Howard, says that until recently, he’s supported Devan financially all his adult life and cannot understand why he doesn’t want to do things for himself.

“If my family thinks that I need to grow up, then maybe you’re just not listening,” says Devan, claiming that he pays all the bills that he can with what little money he has. Watch the video above to hear what else Devan admits to spending his money on.

And later, Devan says he wants to be an independent adult but admits he doesn’t know how to get there. What happens when he meets personal development coach Mike Bayer?

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Mike Bayer is a New York Times best-selling author and life/personal development coach whose mission is to help people achieve sound mental health in order to become their best selves. He is also the founder and CEO of CAST Centers - a leading dual-diagnosis treatment center located in Los Angeles, California. Mike’s latest book, “One Decision: The First Step to a Better Life,” is available wherever books are sold.

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