This video is unavailable because we were unable to load a message from our sponsors. If you are using ad-blocking software, please disable it and reload the page. Embed Code Restart Playing A Cheating Husband Puts Himself in His Wife's Shoes A Cheating Husband Puts Himself in His Wife's Shoes Relationships/Sex – Published on April 21, 2014 Ben admits he cheated on his wife of six months, Kelly, with eight to 15 women. Dr. Phil asks Ben to put himself in Kelly's shoes and explain how she feels. Will it make an impact?