Tim says his life was ruined seven years ago when he got into an altercation with his mother and she called the police. He was arrested and convicted of misdemeanor domestic battery and claims he now can’t get a job. He blames his mother for what his life has become and insists she must “fix” the situation.

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His mother claims he has been verbally abusive toward her for the last seven years, leaving her mean and nasty text messages, explicit words written on her doorstep and vulgar voicemails.

Tim’s father says his son has turned into a recluse and is incapable of moving past the event.

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In the video above, Dr. Phil offers the 35-year-old advice for moving on with his life.

“The past is over, the future hasn’t happened yet, the only time is now,” Dr. Phil tells Tim. “You’ve got to put the rest of your life together; You’ve got to get back in the game.”

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He suggests that Tim let go of his pain. “Give yourself the right to be happy again. Give yourself the right to have some joy again,” he says. “You’ve got to forgive this woman because if you don’t, you’re just trapped and stuck.”

Dr. Phil offers Tim a plan for getting his life back on track. Does Tim agree to follow it? See what happens on Monday’s episode. Check here to see where you can watch.

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