Marcea has written to Dr. Phil 12 times asking for help to save her marriage. She claims her husband, Dustin, is a narcissist and an alcoholic, claims he denies. She also claims that she has found his dating profiles on sugar daddy websites and read text messages that make her believe he has cheated on her.

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Marcea admits that she struggles to decide if she should leave the relationship, because she claims Dustin turns around and tells her he wants to work things out and raise their child together.

In the video above, Dr. Phil tells Marcea what he believes is going on.

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“You have turned your life over to him,” he says. “He is looking for a safety zone, a soft place to fall. He wants his cake and eat it too.”

Dr. Phil continues, “You have taken a seat on the bench, and you’re waiting for him to tell you what’s going to happen in your life. You have to decide, ‘You know what? I am going to decide what happens in my life. I’ve got a life to live.’”

Will Marcea come to terms with the fact that her marriage is finished? Check here to see where you can watch Monday’s episode.

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