Jem claims ex-boyfriend, Joshua, told her he believed he was Jesus Christ and used that to justify manipulating her, starving her (he says they were fasting), and choking her when she told him she wanted to leave him.

When Joshua tells her “I am really sorry for what you went through,” Dr. Phil explains why what Joshua said wasn’t an actual apology for his behaviors.

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