Lori, 58, says she has OCD, chronic depression, and emotional problems. She currently lives in a basement apartment in her mother, Lydia’s, mansion in Southern California, and says she’s been there for the past seven years since her partner of 30 years died.

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Lori says she wants to find love again, live in a house by the water, and have a few more friends, but instead, she watches TV all day and visits with her mom.

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“If you want to change your life, you have to behave your way from where you are to where you want to be,” Dr. Phil says to Lori in the video above.

When Dr. Phil offers to match Lori with a life coach to help her rebuild her life, what is Lori’s response?

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