Josh, says his wife, Sky, pushes his buttons and nags him, which he says causes him to “snap.” He admits to having become physical with Sky, but claims he’s never put his hands on another woman out of anger. But Josh’s ex- fiancée, Ashley, claims he got physical with her as well.

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“Josh was abusive and dangerous. Josh was also incredibly controlling. He insisted on having access to all of my email accounts. If I was on the phone, he had to listen to who I was talking to; he was constantly belittling me,” says Ashley on Tuesday’s Dr. Phil. “He blamed me for all of his problems.”

“That is a lie,” says Josh who claims that Ashely was the abusive one in their relationship.

This episode airs Tuesday. Find out where you can watch here. 

If you think you may be in a dangerous relationship with unhealthy patterns, please seek help. Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (1-800-799-7233). Or visit

Visit to learn more about Robin McGraw’s Foundation: When Georgia Smiled and The Aspire Initiative, an interactive program which helps those caught in the cycle of domestic abuse to identify, and take steps to end it.

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