Barbara says she met her husband, Tano, while she was working as a corrections officer and he was serving time for bank larceny.

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After Tano was released from prison, Barbara says they got married, opened a business and started a family. Then, after 20 years of marriage, Tano was shot and killed in a stand-off with police after he attempted to rob a bank.

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“It’s hard to explain how I could have been shocked that he did something like that when I met him where I met him,” says Barbara, who claims she never saw it coming. “He hoodwinked me,” she adds.

When Dr. Phil asks, “You say it came out of left field, but hadn’t he robbed the same bank before?” how does she respond?

Plus, why does Barbara say she kept her husband’s criminal past a secret from their children?

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