After 16 years of marriage, CJ and Kaylie say they decided to divorce. The former couple shares legal custody of their 14-year-old daughter, Gabrielle, but admit they have completely opposite views on parenting.

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“Five months after Kaylie and I had separated, Gabrielle came home and she dropped a big bomb,” says CJ. “My daughter saw a very sexually explicit video of her mother on her phone. She was 11 years old at the time.”

“So I explained to my daughter that I was a professional dominatrix,” says Kaylie.

Since then, claims CJ, Kaylie has been allowing Gabrielle to drink alcohol, smoke marijuana, and even permitted her to stop going to school.

“For the last couple of years, my daughter’s spiraled out of control with the approval of her own mother,” he claims.

“Do I feel that I’m condoning Gabrielle’s behavior? Yeah,” says Kaylie. She claims she’s connecting with and helping her daughter “in a whole other way that CJ couldn’t possibly understand.”

“It’s so inappropriate, it’s beyond me,” claims CJ, who says Gabrielle lived with him for the first three years following his divorce from Kaylie. Why does he say he sent her to live with her mother?

Part one of this two-part episode airs Tuesday. Check here to find out where you can watch.

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