“When I met Brandi, I thought she was a sweet, wonderful woman, and now she’s angry, mean, vindictive, cruel,” says Victor of his ex-wife.

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He claims Brandi is a “raging alcoholic” who has had multiple run-ins with the law, including two DUI’s and a felony conviction after she destroyed his in-home recording studio. Victor says he paid all of her fines. “Brandi’s legal fees have run me in excess of over $100,000. I would always bail her out,” he says.

He also claims Brandi is abusive when she drinks. “A little less than a year ago, she was so drunk that she admitted that she was having an affair. She hit my hand and busted her nose and blood went everywhere.”

Victor claims their 11-year-old son has witnessed “almost every single incident.” He also claims her drinking has ruined many family holidays.

Brandi, who adamantly denies being an alcoholic, admits she sometimes drinks to excess “And that’s when the volatile behavior comes out.” She’s accusing Victor of abusive and controlling behavior, and of cheating on her; all of which he denies.

He says he really wants Brandi to change her life, “Otherwise I’m afraid she’s gonna wind up dead.”

Why does Brandi say she feels like Victor has turned their youngest son against her?

Part one of this two-part episode airs Wednesday. Check here to find out where you can watch.

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