Exes Kevin and Jana have been at war since they divorced three years ago – and often drag their children into their fighting.

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“Jana is mentally ill,” Kevin claims. “Once she had an affair in 2014, it seemed like Jana just lost her mind.”

Kevin claims Jana has destroyed a laptop during an argument and that she even had him arrested for domestic violence after he claims he grabbed a phone out of her hand.

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“Jana’s causing chaos because she just wants revenge,” Kevin says. “Jana wanted to be able to have an affair, have me put up with it, have me pay for everything. And because I refused to do that, now she’s keeping the kids away from me.”

On Tuesday’s episode of Dr. Phil, hear from Jana, who claims that Kevin is angry, controlling and trying to take the kids away from her. What does Dr. Phil say these parents must do for the sake of their children? Check here to see where you can watch.

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