“I understand that Danielle wants a more compassionate person, but that’s just not who I am, says Ryan about his girlfriend of nearly two years. The couple met online, and now Danielle is six months’ pregnant with Ryan’s baby.

Danielle claims about four months after they started dating, she began to see a side of her boyfriend that is controlling, manipulative and narcissistic. She says she’s thinking about leaving him if he doesn’t change.

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“If Danielle ever gave me an ultimatum to ‘change or she’s leaving’ I’d say ‘don’t let the door hit you on your way out,’” says Ryan in the video above. But when Dr. Phil starts to ask some probing questions about his behaviors, Ryan admits he knows “This is not normal.”

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Is this couple willing to accept help to save their relationship ? Tune in to Dr. Phil on Wednesday.  

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