Lance says for the last year-and-a-half, he’s been dealing with the “shock” of losing his father. In 2018, his dad’s body was found wrapped in a rug – but Lance says he had no idea his father had even died.

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“My stepmom, Toni, pretended to be my dad through email, and it was, honestly, believable,” Lance says. “I’m still confused at when she took over, because some emails, they sounded so much like him.”

Lance says that Toni even showed up at his boot camp graduation. “It seemed like she was being supportive, even though she had already murdered my dad,” he says. “I’ve been pretty trapped, recently, trying to figure out everything and why Toni would do what she did.”

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Hear more from Lance in the video above, including why he blames himself for his father’s death.
On Friday’s episode of Dr. Phil, Dr. Phil offers Lance advice. And life coach Mike Bayer weighs in. Check here to see where you can watch.