Cindy and Trever’s 16-year marriage has been filled with chaos.

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Cindy says she and Trever constantly fight and that they have both been physical with each other. She says she and the children are scared of him.

“Trevor can be a very, very violent person,” Cindy says.

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However, Trever says there’s no reason his wife and children should be afraid of him. He claims he has only been physical with his wife when he was trying to defend himself, and that she is the one who causes the chaos by constantly pushing his buttons.

“Cindy is extremely hardheaded and it’s very hard to get through to her sometimes,” Trever says. “The only time I’m heard is if I’m almost, like, screaming.”

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In the video above, Dr. Phil questions Trever about some of the statements he has made to his family, including, “I will murder everyone at the table and go to jail where it is peaceful,” and “I’d have to fake my death to get away from Cindy and trust me, I have thought about it.”

How does Trever explain himself? And, is there hope for this marriage to survive? This episode of Dr. Phil airs Wednesday. Check here to see where you can watch.

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