Mike says he started investigating his wife, Cindy, two-and-a-half years ago when he caught her in a lie and became convinced that she has been cheating on him for years. Cindy is adamant that she has never cheated on Mike. “When Mike gets mad, he turns violent,” she says, claiming that Mike has pushed and hit her.

“I have grabbed Cindy by the neck and have just wanted to shake the truth out of her,” says Mike, admitting that he has also slapped his wife.

Watch this clip from season 12 to find out how Dr. Phil responds when Mike says he wants Cindy back.

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