"I spoil Justin by giving him everything he asks for, and a lot of the times, things that he doesn’t even ask for," Deborah says.

In this Classic Season 1 Dr. Phil clip, she asks Dr. Phil, “I would really like you to help me be a better parent and not give in to Justin.”

On Friday’s episode, learn how to motivate a lazy spouse and how to stop being a critical partner. Watch more here. And, check here to see where you can tune in to Dr. Phil.

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