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          Mother And Son’s Heartbreaking Argument Caught On Tape: ‘I Hate You Enough To … Kill You’


          March 10, 2016

          Victoria claims that, on several occasions, she has been physically attacked by her 15-year-old son, Angelo, and that she is now afraid for her life and doesn’t know what to do.

          “I am terrified of the young man Angelo is becoming, because he is an abuser,” Victoria says.

          Victoria – who also has a 16-year-old son in a juvenile treatment facility, and a 10-year-old daughter caught in the middle of the violence at home – claims Angelo has had a pattern of “extreme violent behavior” since he was young. At one point, Victoria says that she voluntarily placed Angelo into foster care when he was 7 or 8 years old because she wasn’t able to parent him.

          “It was a case of [CPS saying], ‘If you don’t help your kids, then we are going to take your kid,’ and I can’t help my kids. They are out of control, so it was voluntary,” she tells Dr. Phil.

          Angelo, who says his mother calls him “a mistake” and “an accident,” admits he has been violent towards Victoria.

          “I’ve hit my mom two or three times … One time, she came after me and started hitting me. I got so mad, I just hit her back. I know that’s wrong now,” the teen says. “My mom doesn’t like me. I don’t think she loves me as much as someone else’s mom would.”

          Angelo recorded audio of a Valentine’s Day 2014 argument with his mother, which he played for Dr. Phil.

          “I hate you. I hate you. I hate you. And then I hate you some more,” Victoria can be heard saying to her son on the recording. “And just when you think I can’t hate you some more, I hate you enough to [expletive] kill you ... You’ve been screwing up my life since you were born.”

          Watch the video above, as a tearful Victoria and Angelo react to hearing the recorded incident. After hearing the recording, what does Victoria think of her words toward her son?

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