Ben claims that his ex-wife, Jennifer, leaves their 13-year-old daughter, Bella, alone two or three nights a week to go out to bars. He says, “My fear for Bella is that something bad is going to happen if things don’t change.”

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Bella, who sometimes self-harms, says that she’s uncomfortable around her mother’s boyfriends.

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Jennifer, who claims Ben is trying to make her look bad as a parent, insists she’s a “very good mother,” and that no one understands how hard it is dealing with everything on her own, “Because they don’t actually see it.”

When Dr. Phil tells the former couple, “You’re making a conscious choice to torture your daughter,” how do Ben and Jennifer respond?

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