Anna says her niece, Emmy, is destroying her life. According to the teen’s mom, Alma, Emmy is drinking and smoking marijuana, disobeys rules and has been kicked out of two schools in two years. Anna says she partly blames Alma for Emmy’s behavior.

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“My 16-year-old niece, Emmy, is screaming for attention from her mother,” Anna says. “Alma doesn’t take responsibility for her actions in Emmy’s behavior. Alma isn’t the best mother; she has not provided the structure and discipline to raise a child.”

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In the video above, hear why Alma sent Emmy a text message stating, “You might as well kill yourself because I’m going to do the same thing.” How does Alma explain? And on Tuesday’s episode of Dr. Phil, what does Dr. Phil say he thinks needs to happen to get this mother and daughter on a new life path? Check here to see where you can watch.

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‘I’m Going To Do What I Want To Do,’ Says 16-Year-Old