Josie, 64, says everyone in her life objects to her relationship with her fiancé, Victor, a Nigerian citizen who is 30 years her junior. She says they met online just over a year ago, and though they’ve never seen each other in person, they talk on the phone and video chat several times a day. Josie claims that Victor is the love of her life.

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Josie’s son, Anthony, her sister, Carmen, and her best friend, Angela, all say they fear Victor may be trying to use Josie to immigrate to the United States. Victor adamantly denies it and insists his love for Josie is real.

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When Dr. Phil proposes that instead of Victor moving to the U.S. to live with Josie, she could renounce her citizenship and move to Nigeria to live with him, Victor says Nigeria is too dangerous a place for Josie to live.

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Watch the video above to hear what Josie says when Dr. Phil asks her, “Do you believe me when I tell you this isn’t real?” Then, check here to find out where you can watch Friday’s Dr. Phil.

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‘I Can’t Fight My Heart,’ Says 64-Year Old About Her 34-Year-Old Nigerian Fiancé