Tamara says she enjoys having the “perfect” appearance and living a lavish lifestyle. The 17-year-old says she does something every day to alter her looks, including spending $7,000 a month on beauty treatments, a personal glam squad and high-end shoes and purses.

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“Looking perfect makes me feel like I’m living my best life, and I feel complete,” the teen says.

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“You’re seeking perfection rather than excellence and those are two very different things,” Dr. Phil tells Tamara on Friday’s episode. “I found that the way to fill yourself up is to give away what you want the most. And if you’re having trouble filling yourself up based on skin, and hair, and weight and all of that, you might try filling yourself up by giving of your heart, and your spirit and your soul.”

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Today’s Takeaway: Giveaway What You Need The Most